Your Experience is Powerful: A Relationship Tarot Reading, Sexy Messages from Your Soulmate, and a Discussion on Aging with Distinction

Happy Mother’s Day! 💐

And real talk — right after I finished recording this episode I had to pick up my son sick from school, and then the chills hit me. We were down for three days. You can literally hear me getting sicker as the episode goes on. I think it was the same bug we had in March — starts with a scratchy throat, turns into weeks of coughing. Summer cannot come soon enough.

In Episode 171 of Love Sex and Tarot, we open with a powerful reflection on the wisdom women carry through every stage of life — and why that wisdom is more valuable than the world wants us to believe. Did you know that humans and orcas are the only two animals on the planet that go through menopause? That’s not a flaw — that’s evolution protecting the knowledge of the feminine. The wisdom of aging women has guided civilizations through dark ages and continues to quietly hold the world together today.

We dive into a relationship tarot reading that speaks to someone in a romantic pause — a moment of hesitation where love is present but complicated by past wounds, legal history, financial triggers, and the emotional chaos of a third-party drama queen. The cards reveal a path forward rooted in self-love, emotional healing, and trust — and promise that wishes can come true, deep loyalty is present, and transformation is on the way. Death and the World appear together: something is ending so something profound can begin. The spread encourages you to stop waiting for proof of love and start trusting what’s already growing.

Key themes in this reading include:

∙ Commitment ascending — this relationship is moving toward a deeper level of trust and long-term partnership

∙ Drama queen energy — a third party (a past lover, a jealous outsider, or a chaos-causer in your life) is creating emotional turbulence and must be released

∙ Legal and financial triggers — past wounds around money, support, or legal entanglements are blocking forward movement, but they are just triggers, not destiny

∙ The advice — stop tipping your hand, love yourself first, let the relationship develop naturally, and know that happiness is at the bottom of the deck

We also get real about women’s mental load, the impossible to-do lists we hold in our heads, and why rest doesn’t have to be earned. I introduce the A-list/B-list method for managing mental overwhelm — only the A-list truly has to get done. Everything else can wait. Delegation is a skill. Letting go of how someone else does a task is a skill. And Gen Z filling a ketchup bottle one single packet at a time? A whole lesson in letting people learn.

Then we close with a conversation about body image, aging, and the double standard women face — sparked by a viral reel of a 55-year-old woman hiking El Camino de Santiago being torn apart in the comments for looking “weathered.” The truth? A weathered face is a life lived. Women are just as distinguished as men — the only reason no one says it to men’s faces is the threat of violence. And if more women over 40 started reacting accordingly… maybe things would change.

We wrap up with sexy messages for every sign — and yes, they are exactly what you think they are.

This episode is for: anyone navigating a complicated relationship with legal or financial history, anyone who needs permission to rest, every woman over 40 who has ever been made to feel invisible, and anyone who has ever put ketchup on absolutely everything.

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